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Ask Anita - What tricks help a woman to orgasm?

Well, I love men that ask that question because they truly want their sexual partner to have as much fun as they do. Men do forget at times that it is so important for the woman's pleasure if they do not rush. It is the slow buildup that leads to that cataclysmic boom for the woman. You start slowly, set the stage, candles, just the right music in the background, pouring some wine, sharing strawberries and whip cream together. Then a lot of french kissing. Not just five minutes either, maybe 15 minutes at least. Passion always is needed to start the sensual buildup to that female orgasm. 

Lips and tongue action and then work up and down her body kissing her kneck, the back of her kneck, move her onto her stomach, kissing up and down her back and squeeze her butt with your hands and open up the crack to kiss and lick her ass. Then follow down her legs, kissing the "other lips", licking between those folds, kiss and lick down her legs and then rub your hands down her legs, caress her feet, and start back up.

Massage oils as well as cocoa butter can be added to this foreplay. You are just adding to her anticipation with teasing, massaging and kissing up and down her legs, butt, back and then back to her mouth again.  Turn her over and start from top to bottom on her front. Kissing passionately first of course! Then oiling her up and down, kissing and sucking her nipples, making sure you are not sucking too hard (always check if she prefers firm or just light suction on her nipples. Don't assume pain is her preference). Move down her body, fingers and mouth finding her other lips and licking between those folds. 

If you run your tongue around her clitoral head, concentrating on the 10 o’ clock and 2 o’clock marks on either side, and then gently slip your tongue beneath the hood, you’ll have her moaning from the intensity. While bang-on is too sensitive, those two sweet spots will make sure that she takes a licking and keeps on ticking, thanks to the bulbs hidden just beneath. The best way to pull off this maneuver is to have her straddle your face as you lay comfortably on your back. 

The best thing to do with your partner is if in doubt, always ask what makes her cum and listen intently. Be a student of clitoral and sensory sexual stimulations. Sometimes both the suction on the clit and fingering inside her vagina is needed but please understand that sometimes some lube is needed for the woman even in oral as it decreases friction during it. Please make sure you have trimmed your nails before the "date" as there is nothing worse than nails cutting inside a woman's vaginal canal. Maybe add some toy play to the mix and add some lube to her clitoral area and the toy can massage the clitoris as you use your tongue inside of her. Then move the vibrator down and slowly insert the lubricated vibrator inside her (please don't stuff it hard inside her, slowly back and forth) while you move your mouth and tongue back up into the clitoral area. 

Now I'd suggest you just move your body over hers as if a sliding motion and you move your cock between her legs in a teasing up and down so you can stimulate her clitoris with your cock head. There is nothing like naked body to body stimulation, gents! This Wild Anita has cum so much even before the gent has entered me! Keep that body to body up for awhile before discussing which position works best. This is also a good time to add more lube if needed. Gents can take the lead on this. Then maybe suggest a 69 position so that "Skippy" gets some attention as well. At this point, I usually am working on "Skippy" and the "twins" with my voraciously hungry mouth, lips and tongue but that's me! Obviously not every woman partner you have will be orally in tune with making sure you are erect. Lead her hand to your cock so at least she gets you ready that way if she is reluctant to suck you. Suggesting she lube you will start that process as lube on you can be as important as lube inside her. I love a smooth hand slide on your cock as lube definitely reduces any friction there.  

Now for the main event! For the sexual positions that provide the best chance for the female orgasm, my personal favorites is the spoon position where he enters from behind, the edge of the bed missionary where he is standing and my legs are over his shoulders, as well as me on top in cowgirl where I am grinding against him, and reverse cowgirl where he is playing with my ass (please squeeze it! I love men squeezing my ass!), and the good old doggie position where he fucks me from behind, I play with my clitoris and his balls at the same time. There are so many great positions but clitoral stimulation is key while he gets his cock in just the right location to stimulate that area as he enters his partner. There are many women that have a hard time cumming during intercourse so a lot of oral time before as discussed does create more anticipation and excitement for the wild lovemaking that will lead to that cataclysmic "O".   

Yes, gentlemen, getting between her legs does not need to be a race to the finish line and then you snoring next to her while she lays there thinking, "Well, that did nothing for me!" With all of the above steps, you can create a date night for the ages! And obviously if you choose to use these steps to get this Wild Tigress off, I won't object, he he! 

Hugs and voraciously hungry kisses, 

Anita