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Jul
02
2020
Ask Anita - Do you ever play porn in your sessions and if not, why?

No, I don’t play porn in sessions as I prefer to be the porn show for my gentlemen and provide an action packed hour of sensual fun for us. I sometimes play music in sessions in the background. There are some gentlemen that have brought their porn with them for my sessions in their IPAD's, smart phones and portable DVD players. I don't tell them they can't but my preference is for no porn to be played. 

Porn is very addictive and studies have shown that the addiction to it negatively effects a gentlemen’s sex life. Porn is full of lies as the women in these movies have been photoshopped and show them to be flawless when in actuality no one is flawless. Porn also shows women enjoying many of the sexual acts. Porn is tied to violent actions in movies and basically show that women enjoy the violence or sexual acts in movies when in actuality the porn sexual acts are degrading, painful or violent.

Gentlemen that are addicted to porn have a mistaken belief that all the acts in porn movies are approved by women and may try to duplicate those sexual acts in his bedroom with his sexual partner or with an escort. He may have a difficulty “coming” in sexual sessions as he believes all sessions should emulate his porn movies and when they don’t live up to that, he can’t orgasm. In that sense porn promotes an unhealthy view of sex and further sexually frustrates a male.

A gentlemen’s porn addiction can negatively impact an existing relationship with his wife or girlfriend and may lead to a breakup in that relationship. It can also lead to depressing, demeaning and self-loathing kind of thoughts in the addicted male. Internet porn has also turned darker, more graphic, and more extreme. 

There are many men that come see me that have tried to duplicate porn acts in my “playroom”.  I have had men violently shove me down to suck their cock. I have had men (as I stated in a blog earlier this week) put their hands around my neck and squeeze to see if they can cut off the air flow. I have had men have my head hang off the bed as they violently throat fuck me and try to shut off air flow to my windpipe. All of those actions will earn a lifetime ban to visiting me in the future. I also give unfavorable references to other escort providers to those gentlemen that do those kinds of actions to me to other escort companions (for some reason all men think that by showing up in my playroom, they will always get good references, NOT).

I have had other escort providers get back to me with unfavorable references should their “Johns” give them bruises or in other ways enact violence in the bedroom.

So if anything, gentlemen, please act like a gentlemen in the bedroom and make sure you know the boundaries that an escort companion has. If you want to be a hobbyist and see multiple escort companions, it is to your benefit to NOT duplicate porn violences with escort companions that you make dates with. 

Remember, a porn show is a “show” in which “actors” and “actresses” are playing roles that aren’t necessarily “reality”. It isn’t real and the actions by the actors and actresses may not be actions that are “approved” of by your normal sexual partners.

In that respect, men that have porn addictions would be best served with being a hobbyist and going on “dates” with escort companions on a regular basis rather than viewing porn regularly and thinking that is a reality. Yes, this is another shameful business plug for me and my “sisterhood” and leave the porn turned off.

Hugs and voraciously hungry kisses,

Anita