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Ask Anita - What is kinky to you and what are some kinky requests you have gotten?

Well, gentlemen, some interesting definitions of Kinky I came across: Kinky: Foot-sucking, rubber wearing, pee on me, fruit-fuckin', candlewax drippin', long fingernail scrapin', tossed salad eatin',multiple partner havin', she-male, oil-drenched, chocolate sauce, whipped cream covered, vibrator using,dress-up,banned in 30 states type of sex. Another definition: a tendency to like things, sexually or not, that may not apeal to a majority; open to experimentation. And still another: Sexual practices that many people view as wild, unusual, or extreme. 

I would think that anything that is considered a fetish is kinky. i haven't been asked to do every fetish so obviously there will not be an exhaustive list here of all fetishes in this article but I will give you an idea of ones that I have and have not participated in. This morning I was asked to participate in a fart fetish and turned it down. I have also turned down doing brown showers as well as men giving golden showers to me. I DO give golden showers to gentlemen however.

Another fetish I do not do is Greek or anal. Many gentlemen ask that since I both rim and give prostate massages that I must allow anal on me as well. No, gentlemen, my G-spot is not found in the anus. It is definitely a painful tight area for me. My appointments are mostly a two way street of fun, sensual enjoyment and passion for both parties. I don't want to be in pain when performing services. Now a gentlemen's G-spot is considered the P-spot(or prostate gland) which is in the anus as it has a lot of scintillating nerve endings when it is massaged that can lead to that cataclysmic "O".  Now there are gentlemen that insist that isn't the area for them so we don't explore that but I do have my share of gentlemen that visit me for the prostate massages and/or strap-on play. I have various size toys and dildos (for the newbies as well as the gentlemen that have been doing this awhile). I take great care in their cleanliness after each client and for the toys, I do use a condom on them. Mistress Anita does love being fucked but also loves fucking gentlemen. Now I do allow men to rub my asshole with their finger (no finger in) and they can rim me if they'd like. 

There are some other kinky things I participate in. I do spankings with my hands and with paddles and whips. I do let men spank me as well. If men want me to restrain them with either handcuffs or rope, I will do that. I also have a leash to use on men. I allow men to cross dress at my place and many men join me to adore my feet (foot fetish). I love my feet worshipped because it helps me. Who doesn't want their toes sucked and feet massaged? It doesn't send me into an O but it makes me feel good! i have arthritis in all my joints so I consider it therapy, he he! I also had my first leather worshipper a few weeks ago and so yes, I wore leather everywhere (he brought me a set of leather boots to wear for the session) and he became my sissy and worshipped me from top to bottom. 

I have my share of gentlemen that think my swallowing cum is considered kinky. Maybe because not every provider does that? I just think it's normal myself. Now speaking of cum, yes, I have my share of gentlemen that like "snowballing" or me passing the cum to them once I take it so they can swallow it. Obviously I DO NOT do that if they haven't asked me. You should see the look on the gents faces when I go to kiss them afterwards. I always tell them, it's swallowed already, no worries! He he! 

There are men that come to see me that I will call "voyeurs" that simply want me to masturbate in front of them with a toy or just my fingers and get myself off while they watch. Those gents then either grab a condom and put it on and fuck me (as they are erect from watching) or some just want me to give them a hand job or a covered blowjob afterwards. I am perfectly willing to forego my love of cum (as I normally do bareback blowjobs) for their safety concerns. Obviously I want my gentlemen clientele all to be comfortable with me. 

There are men that want me to do car dates or other public sex with them but I have not agreed to that. I don't want to take any extra chances on getting arrested. I realize the location outside is out of the norm but it is still a bit risky. I have had sex in other parts of my room other than the bed. One gentlemen had me on the sink in the bathroom area (I have a Master Bath area that will remind you of an upscale hotel room). I have a couple gents that say that next time they see me, they'd like to try chair sex. 

Another request has been multiple men and me or me with a couple. As of now I have not participated in this although I would if both parties verified/screened with me beforehand. I can't take any chances as police officers do have a tendency to ask if their "partners" can join us. Yes, in that same tone they use when they are pulling you over for speeding. No worries, Anita sees through everything. Yes, my verification/screening practices protects us both. I also would prefer if it is a couple if the woman was taking the lead as I want to make sure it is the woman's idea. I don't want a man bringing an unsuspecting woman to me for me to give them "oral lessons". Yes, I know I am very good but I don't want a woman coming to me and getting insulted by her gent in the process. That would be more of an uncomfortable session.

So overall, I am open to a lot of kinky sex practices, just some fetishes as mentioned I do not. Now I must head to get some rest before tomorrow Monday as this kinky Wild Tigress does need sleep to rejuvinate and have that energy of a 30 year old that has been written about in her reviews, he he! 

Hugs and voraciously hungry kisses, 

Anita